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Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Believing I'm Beautiful, the hardest thing to do...

It is one of the hardest things I have ever had to take on: the task of convincing myself that I am a beautiful woman and taking into account when people say so. Confidence is something that I have struggled with over the years and finally one day I just said, "The hell with what other people think- I am a beautiful, strong, and sexy woman!" I was tired of the battle within myself everyday: telling myself I was pretty and then looking in the mirror and saying I was ugly. How horrible! I would never talk to my friends that way, so why am I talking to myself like this? After a six year bout of being put down by an umentionable person, I decided that I was going to free myself from the grips of low self-confidence. On New Year's Eve 2008/2009, I added the second tattoo to my collection of 7. This one was strategically placed on the back of my neck and it says in my own cursive(which I had to beg the tattooist to let me write it) "Beautiful". I put it on my neck so I always know that it is there, I don't always have to see it, but I know that it is there-- just like my beauty. Just because others don't always see it and I don't always see it, doesn't mean that I am not. Every woman is beautiful simply because she is a woman. We all need to embrace that. I believe in being forthright and honest with people, but it would do the world a little bit of good for us to tell the women we know that they are beautiful. If every girl grew up hearing this everyday, they would grow up to be strong, confident women. They would never allow a man to treat them badly because they would know they don't deserve it. Confidence goes a long way with women. When I have confidence I feel like I can conquer the world! And I can!